I started working with Jaime a little over three years ago. I approached her at a time in my life when I had recently gone through a break up and also was feeling a bit lost and overwhelmed with where I was professionally.
I had successfully built my own company, but was also filled with anxiety and didn’t feel I was where I wanted to be even though I had many years of going to healers, yoga retreats and had worked with psychiatrists & therapists. However here I was in my early 40’s and felt lost & very unhappy.
My first thought when I approached her was I was desperate to figure out why yet again another relationship ended and I was suffering from a broken heart. I was desperate to not feel what I was feeling. Jaime assured me that if I trusted her that it would get better, “ You have no idea how good it can be or how good it’s gonna get”. Those words were what stuck with me.
I trusted that somehow through doing what she suggested, it would shift & hopefully I’d never have to feel so low ever again.
The journey of looking at my history, my patterns & limiting beliefs was somewhat painful and extremely sobering. By going deep and understanding my family of origin and where I had developed my attachments around people, love and survival skills, there was an uncovering that to this day I can honestly say completely changed my life.
Within weeks of working with Jaime I started to become a better leader in my business. I started to see things as they were. I realized I was surrounded by people that didn’t respect or see me as a leader and were taking advantage of me. I soon saw that I needed to shift the team of people around me & I was speaking up & leading in a way I had never done before.
Through working with Jaime my attitude and approach to everything shifted. I’m more present, self aware and more responsible for my own life instead of being a victim.
I started to develop myself and focus on getting to know who I am and what I want. I felt more peace and contentment without always focusing on pleasing others and caring about what people thought of me
Jaime helped me to understand that I was a constant people pleaser and by doing so I was regularly giving my power away. It wasn’t easy to accept at first and very hard to shake a lifetime of people pleasing, but I could easily see how this behavior was causing me pain and was debilitating to the point that I was always left feeling completely depleted and in a constant state of dishonesty.
There were many patterns of behavior that we uncovered. Being willing to see what wasn’t working and changing I began to feel a new freedom.
There’s also stages of growth that didn’t feel great where there was shame & guilt, but for the first time in my life I was feeling these feelings. In the past I would travel, get involved with someone, try and fix someone, shop, or hide behind work to avoid feeling my feelings.
I developed a new way of dealing and feeling that allows me to go deep and establish a love and compassion for myself that I never knew was possible.
It also allowed me to feel for others what I started to feel for myself. I started to feel connected to my heart and felt an unbelievable connection to my purpose and how I wanted to live. But most importantly I was no longer tired, restless and onto the next thing, but completely in my body and fulfilled in ways that I can not describe.
So here I am three years later, my business is thriving, I’m bringing in high quality support, partners and opportunities. I’m excelling as a leader, a friend, a daughter and a human being. My confidence is immeasurably better where I feel worthy of great things and everything around me is reflecting how I feel. I couldn’t have dreamed of the life I’m living, but to once again quote Jaime , “Once the insides change, then the outsides change”.
I feel like a walking miracle and the truth is that it keeps getting better. Any person who works with Jaime is incredibly lucky because she’s an absolute miracle worker. She’s also humble, loving & basically gave me a whole new life that’s made me wanna give back, help others and shine my light in the world.