When I began working with Jaime, I had come off a crazy few years of hitting bottom with a toxic relationship , things finally seemed to be leveling out to a life of OK and I was prepared to live with O.K. when Jaime was recommended by someone.
That version of OK meant I was people pleasing, resentful, there was a constant hum of chaos brewing, continued to ask why I couldn’t be fully happy all while continuing patterns that didn’t serve me.
I believed life couldn’t get any better.
Thank God, I was wrong!
A month or two into the work, my like exploded in a way. The victimhood armor I wore all my life, didn’t fit any longer & I needed to bust out of it. Needless to say I was terrified, felt naked, I wanted to quit, blame her, blame the person who recommended Jaime to me—which I did of course I gratefully stayed against the advice of all of my entrenched self-sabotaging messages in my brain.
Jaime taught me how to live life confidently without the crusted/rusted armor. They are simple techniques with huge results. She showed me life isn’t only black and white—there are many shades of Grey(no, not the movie shades of grey). By writing for 5 minutes daily & connecting with my higher power/Source/God & taking time to take care of myself, I am present for life.
Literally, I’ve done a 180 on how I approach life, my family & most importantly myself.
I’ve moved to a city I adore. I brought in and purchased the home of my dreams. I am creating a life that is full of opportunities. My Life isn’t perfect but it’s 1000% maybe even 2000% better. I am now able to stand still, breathe & be grounded which is a far cry from my OK life.