I heard a rumor about this amazing coach called Jaime Haas. She was taking people beyond the basics of a twelve step program to a place of emotional freedom that would last for the rest of their lives. Her clients’ transformations sounded amazing. If Jaime was only half as good as she was cracked up to be then I wanted in!
When I met her, smiling, upbeat and full of life, Jaime warned me that working with her was not for the faint-hearted. The healing process would be mentally and physically excruciating. She wasn’t kidding. But I quickly learned with her foundation program that if it didn’t hurt it wasn’t working. In fact. the worse I felt the happier she got because she knew I was getting rid of harmful stuff I didn’t need – forever.
We identified that I was limited by the ideas that I had to fix other people especially the unfixable, had a fear of authority, saw no possibility of betterment, had a poor self-image as a man, I could never ask for what I wanted, I’d never have enough money and I had to give away what I had to others. In short I was a rampantly compliant, codependent people-pleaser.
In the first six months with Jaime I got intense headaches, depression, anger, panic, fear, even prostate cancer – which was then cured. But I also got two of the biggest and best-paid jobs of my life – and I met the woman of my dreams.
Her method is to take the details of our own personal story of trauma and give it back to us as bespoke affirmations and healing statements. They are designed to shine light on the inner pain we hold inside which secretly creates limiting beliefs and behaviors we are unaware of. And because her affirmations are made out of information we have given her about our rawest inner wounds they are bound to hit center-target.
Jaime allowed me to see that I was a slave to compulsive behaviors driven by fear, shame and humiliation. The compulsion is to turn away from the hidden pain because who wouldn’t? It’s just easier.
Now I understood why the healing had to hurt so much. Because the pain locked inside me was so intense I would do anything to avoid feeling it, including living an entire life in self-blame, without self-esteem and compelled to service everyone else’s needs before my own. That hadn’t served me at all and my life had simply exploded.
Jaime led me out of the scary dark place to a powerful new sense of self and safety. Now I’m naturally self-loving, connected to my Higher Power, letting the Universe direct me toward happiness and fulfillment and without the limiting beliefs and behaviors which really do feel like they’re gone forever.
Her program is a one-way street. The bad stuff doesn’t come back. Life is so much easier now I have let go of all the exhausting busy-work of avoiding inner pain. In Part One she has given me a routine of foundation to support my sense of self-love, shown me how to listen, how deal with others without ego or judgement and live a happy life of peace and service.
I am actually living all of my visions! I got the home of my dreams, I am with the woman of my dreams, I am doing the work of my dreams and I truly love myself and feel fulfilled inside. Thank you Jaime!!